Getting your dog used to brushing, without pressure

Does your dog disappear when you pick up the brush? Start by making the routine comfortable. The aim is voluntary participation, with room to move away at any time.

Check the tool first

A brush must suit your dog's coat and skin. A tool that works for another dog may pull or feel uncomfortable. Ask a qualified groomer if you are unsure. Do not force a brush through mats or cut close to the skin with scissors. Painful skin or a sudden change in tolerance of touch needs veterinary assessment.

Build up in small steps

1. Choose a quiet place with a non-slip surface and room to move.
2. Show the brush at a comfortable distance, reward calm behaviour and put it away again.
3. Briefly touch an easy body area with the back of the brush. Pause and reward.
4. When this is comfortable, try one gentle stroke in the direction of the coat. Avoid pulling or restraint.
5. Increase duration and body areas separately. Finishing a full grooming session is not the initial goal.

Breaks are part of the exercise

If your dog turns away, stiffens or leaves, stop. Wait to see whether they return voluntarily. Food should not lure them into enduring uncomfortable handling. Make the next attempt easier.

Keep a simple note of what your dog accepted calmly. Start the next session with that easy step and finish before patience runs out.

How often should you practise?

Short, regular sessions are more useful than rare, lengthy ones. Actual grooming needs depend on the coat; training also depends on the individual dog. If urgent coat care is needed, seek professional help rather than forcing a complete session.

Browse coat and paw care, choosing tools for comfort rather than appearance.

Further guidance: Dogs Trust: handling your dog.