Once the basics are established, the real training begins. The crucial factor is not the length of time the dog is alone, but rather a gradual increase in small, predictable steps. This teaches the dog that being alone is not something to be afraid of.
If you haven't read the preparation yet:
Basics of staying alone
Training phase 1: Becoming invisible
In the first phase, the dog learns that your departure is predictable and harmless. A ritual that briefly focuses attention on the dog without creating separation stress helps with this.
- Putting on a jacket is a signal that you're just going to be there for a minute.
- Leave the room briefly (10-30 seconds)
- Come back immediately and greet calmly
Training phase 2: Gradually increase duration
The duration of being alone should be increased gradually. Start with a few seconds and increase to minutes to avoid overwhelming the dog. Observe the dog's behavior closely: whining, destruction, or extreme restlessness are warning signs.
- 10 seconds
- 30 seconds
- 1 minute
- 3 minutes
- 5 minutes
Training phase 3: Creating a positive association
Dogs learn best when they associate being alone with pleasant things. Chew toys, food games, or lick mats can help keep the dog mentally occupied and create a positive association with being alone.
- Chewable toys for longer-lasting activity
- Lick mats for mental stimulation
- Intelligence toys for calm concentration
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How long does the training last?
The duration depends heavily on the dog's breed, age, and experience. Puppies usually learn faster, while insecure dogs may need several weeks to months. Patience and consistent, small steps are crucial.
If problems occur, be sure to read:
Avoid typical mistakes when staying alone
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