Many dog ​​owners want a relaxed dog that can easily stay home alone. But being left alone is not a natural state for dogs—it has to be learned. Establishing the right foundation early on prevents stress, barking, or destructive behavior and ensures a harmonious life together.

Why do many dogs find it difficult to be left alone?

Dogs are social animals that originally live in packs. From a dog's perspective, being alone can mean sudden isolation, lack of access to familiar social structures, and an inability to predict when their human will return. Puppies, rescue dogs, and highly people-oriented breeds, in particular, often react to this with insecurity, anxiety, or behavioral problems.

Dogs often show the following signs:

• Whining, howling, or barking when the person leaves
• Restlessness and pacing around the apartment
• Damage to furniture or objects due to stress

You can find more information about practical training in the next article:
Training to be alone step by step

The most important prerequisites before training

1. Occupation before solitude

A dog that is both physically and mentally stimulated can relax much more easily when left alone. Walks alone often only cover the physical aspect, while mental stimulation such as scent games, search games, or puzzle toys further tires the dog and reduces stress. Dogs that are only physically stimulated may still be nervous or excitable despite being tired.

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2. A safe resting place

A dog needs a designated place that provides a sense of security. A dedicated resting place, such as a dog bed or a cozy corner, signals to the dog: "Here I can relax, even when my human isn't there." Darkened corners or retreat areas within rooms where the dog feels comfortable are particularly beneficial.

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3. Rituals instead of emotions

Farewell rituals such as excessive petting, lengthy conversations, or showing sympathy intensify separation anxiety. Dogs sense their human's nervousness and interpret it as a warning signal. A calm and neutral demeanor when leaving and returning is preferable.

• Leave quietly, without much farewell communication.
• Return neutrally, without an effusive greeting.
• Introduce a short, predictable routine

First mini-exercises in everyday life

Before practicing being left alone for extended periods, you can incorporate small exercises into your daily routine. This way, the dog learns step by step that short absences are normal.

• Leave the rooms briefly (e.g., for 30 seconds)
• Close and reopen the door
• Return quietly, without a big greeting.
• Gradually increase duration and distance

The detailed training instructions follow here:
Training your dog to stay alone – step by step